Isn't it kind of weird? The way our human behavior functions?
We are dependent on the brain for instructions, while all the while our actions are sub-consciously being controlled by the heart!
Today we are all enthusiastic and bubbly and tomorrow we discover we are midst the chaotic throes of the green eyed monster and his clan. A friendship today can become an acquaintance tomorrow and a faded torn jeans yesterday can become a style statement today. There comes a moment when you make a decision and then comes the part where you have to put that decision into execution and we get merely exhausted by the thought.
When its bright and sunny outside, we desperately pray for the showers to get rid of the unbearable heat.
But the moment there is the slightest of hint that it is going to rain, we want it to stop and accommodate our convenience while traveling.
Its not about men being able to understand women, or vice-versa. If you cannot explain a reaction, excuse yourself on account of the changing weather. If you seem confused in a situation, take the safest, easiest and quickest way out. If you seem over whelmed by emotions, blame the hormones!
Anxiously awaiting for a change to occur and during the course of the journey of the hopeless adventure, dissipating into a world of mysterious charms. Sensing the urgency of a being in a critical position and very categorically deciding it isn't yours to tackle. Making a choice based on somebody else's experience instead of venturing out on your own and taking risks. Passing judgments, making assumptions and jumping to conclusions - its all absolutely normal!
Somebody is depressed? Should you care? As long as it doesn't affect you.
Somebody is in a mess? Should you lend a helping hand? As long as they don't drag you down.
Somebody is learning the art of bottling it up? Great! go ahead and pat them on their back. You don't have to deal with sentiments any more!
Facing demons is stupidity. Mending fences is a waste of time. Relationships are materialistic. Nobody cares!
Why is it that it becomes easier to type it out on this annoyingly blank screen than vent it out to an actual human being? Because that's how human life has become - profit oriented and detached!